Dearest Etsy,
So many times over the past few months, I made a note to remember this or that event or milestone. I have done this so much that writing this entry seemed impossible! And the truth of the matter is, I will probably not remember each and every thing. But I will remember more now then next month and next year, so all of these things will still seem like precious collections, memories of where you came from.
Most of the things I've wanted to remember are verbal ones. One day you were talking to yourself in the car in a sing-songy way and I realized you were singing! It was the first song I heard you sing, and it was incredibly precious. You sang:
row, row row boat
gent down streeeeeeeam
mary mary mary mary mary
Again and again. You were around 18-19 months old.
One late night we were driving home and you were still awake. You probably had a slight case of the sillies because I said Opps about something and you cracked up. You repeated it over and over, laughing hysterically after it each time. Then I introduced you to Oppsie and you thought it was equally wonderful. You were not asleep when we got home, I remember that.
You enjoy talking about colors and I was surprised to hear you count with an older kid friend in the pool. up to 14! Your favorite color is definitely yellow as you point it out everywhere and prefer to wear, in your own words, the "lellow dress." Daddy bought you a yellow towel because you fell in love with it in the store. (He said you were snuggling it to your face and seemed really sad when the cashier took it to ring it up!) You like to dry your hands on it and use it when you get out of the tub - it is a nice incentive.
You are interested in our wedding rings. One day you pointed out Mommy's ring and I told you about being married to Daddy and the ring meant that. And ever since then, when you see the ring, you say Daddy and motion to him (he's usually in the front seat driving). So Daddy told you something similar one day, though his was perhaps sweeter - "Love Mommy" is what his ring means! And you often point to our rings and tell us these things. It seems like a kind of sophisticated concept to grasp without any prompting. How could you know a ring means the other person? But you do. I think you understand way more then I realize some times.
Sometimes you melt my heart with your sweetness! In the car one day on my way to work, you looked right at me and I could tell you were working something out in your head. You said something carefully, deliberately, that I couldn't understand. I told you I didn't understand and asked you to repeat it again and again. Sometimes that question makes you stop repeating, but this time you kept on, and I was rewarded greatly by your perseverance. "I love Mommy" you said to me, looking at me intently with your lovely blue eyes. I thought of it the whole day. I was so pleased you took the time to try to say that to me and seemed to think it through so much.
There are other adorable displays of affection too. A few times, out of nowhere, you say, "Big Hug" and give me one. Sometimes you give me a sweet kiss on the cheek and say "kiss." These are lovely things. I feel like all the love I poured in to you as a little baby is coming back to me. All the hugs, all the snuggles, all the kisses, all the "i love yous" - you make me feel like the specialist person in the world during those times. I don't think I've ever quite known what it meant to feel that way. Motherhood is so sweet like that.
Speaking of motherhood, we are expecting a new one at the beginning of January! It has been so fun to talk to you about it. When we first found out at the end of April, we told you about it. You would point to my belly and say, "new baby." After a while, you started kissing my belly too. In fact, when we told my mom that I was pregnant, we did it by asking you where the new baby was! Later on, we started talking about how you would be a big sister and what some of your responsibilities might be. You seem to love it. You often tell us, "biiiig sister." It's cute to see you so proud. I hope the transition to a two-child family will actually go that smoothly! Sometimes I tell you that you grew in Mommy's tummy before you came out to live with us and you nod very seriously like you remember it.
I've had a great time walking close places with you. A few times you and I walked over to the library on Thursday nights for their kids' events together. We have so much fun! We stop to point out things along the way, take biiiig steps. At every street, we stop and I look both ways and say "no cars" when we are good to cross. (On another occasion when our family was all together, you stopped short at the street and then declared "no cars!" before walking. I was surprised you picked it up so fast and remembered to do it even when we didn't.) On the way home, we have a blast - you would try out my shoes or lay down on the grass with me, urging me to sit down beside you. Probably a little unusual, but I like having a little fun with you. I'm always a little surprised you make it walking the whole way each time. And proud. I love having a good little walking buddy! We've started walking to church recently. Since we pass train tracks, you start talking about Thomas and choo-choo when we leave the house. (You've seen Thomas once, from a DVD from the library!) But one time a train did come by and I think it was a little bigger then you expected. You asked me to pick you up. From then on, when we get within eyesight of the train, you will usually ask me to pick you up. Once we are clear of the tracks, you ask to be put down (but you always say "Up Please" instead). I cherish those walks too.
You also perplexingly call sliced cheese "cheese dat dat." My best guess is that that comes from the fact that it is the cheese Daddy puts on his sandwiches and you wanted a way to distinguish it from string cheese? We keep responding with (the right kind of) cheese, so I don't think it will go away soon.
You've shown some independence recently. You use the potty around once a day, usually first thing in the morning. Nearly every time I put you on the toliet, you do pee. But I'm not sure you've got the concept of coming and telling us ahead of time first. But you are interested in it and adorable when you do - You seem so very, very pleased with yourself. I do wonder if we are missing an opportunity by not doing potty breaks diligently though.
About two months ago, you surprised us by starting to sleep through the entire night! Before that, you would get up once in the middle of the night and I would bring you in bed with us. And then, suddenly, 8-8, out of the blue probably 6 nights out of 7. It was pretty wonderful. I thought to myself, "this worked really well for us." But that 7th night, you were wide awake at 3 or 4 and nothing could get you back to sleep. After 3 weeks or so, those bad nights got closer and closer together. One week they were every third night! I always remind myself regarding the harder things that "this too will pass." But I guess I should also remember that for the great things! Kids are ever changing, lots and lots of phases. You learn to be flexible and responsive.
And then you discovered you could get out of your crib. That was 2 days ago. Nighttime has now become very challenging. I've been talking to you about a Big Girl Bed and we've been considering whether you would still hop out of your crib if it wasn't next to the bed. We have a vacation next week, so we'll start the work next week on that. I feel like we should have know this would happen, but we are caught kind of flabbergasted.
Etsy is sort of your name for you. When we first asked you to say "Juliet," you could only manage or remember the "Et" part. So we started called you Et or Etsy and it has just stayed. The last time you saw yourself in a picture, I asked who it was and you said "Etsy." So it has become a pretty common part of our family jargon right now. We'll see if it stays.
I'm sure there are a million other things, a thing to remember for each and every day, and then some. I want to say this to you, earnestly and intently. Look me in the eye, little one, but I will repeat it forever and ever for you.
I love Juliet.
Friday, August 10, 2012
Wednesday, April 4, 2012
KickyBaby v. 1.5
Juliet,
As soon as I wrote that last post about our wonderful night, you embarked on about 2 weeks of sleep troubles. Something comes to mind about counting chickens....
But we are on the other, sleeping, end of that disaster. And it has been sweet. There are several times recently where you rise from tossing and turning at night to point at your crib. And when I lay you down there, you snuggle in there and say "nigh night" in your sweet little voice. Though you often can't sleep well there either. But you try. (Probably teething.) And many nights recently, you've also snuggled in to your crib at the start of the night without tears, without anguish.... with peace. I am so glad. You still wake up in the middle of the night and I bring you in to bed though. I don't mind - it works for us.
You have been finding that sweet little voice more and more. You say all sorts of things. I remember cuddling you one of those restless nights where you worked out the way to say "one, two." Slowly, methodically, you sounded them out, "Won, Tu," to yourself. Turns out Dada taught you that that day. You actually seem to say this excitedly every time you see two of something. Can you really understand that there are 2 of something? Or am I just giving you too much credit? You love cats and will announce them, whether your stuffed ones or real ones. "Caz!" Often you just MEW instead. We've been playing with a little white kitten stuffed animal in the car recently. We meow really loud back and forth. And then one day you made the kitten dance to music in the car and I started saying "Go Kitty, Go Kitty, Go Kitty." And you think it is the best. I can't quite understand why, but it makes me feel like the funniest person on the planet. Do all moms feel that way? Especially when they are in the middle of major accomplishments like getting their little ones to laugh.
What could be sweeter?
You've also started making the shh finger and every time you do it, you say "B!" (Your nickname for your cousin Ben). So we say, "Ben is sleeping, shhhhh." Also, I cut my finger and you kept pointing at my "owie" and trying to kiss it. You also say "eis" for eggs, "wawa" for water (you've been up to this for a while), "blue," "Ello" (Othello is the name of one of the Morris' cats), "pee pee" and "poop poop" (we are preparing to potty train), "ball," "pants," "apple," "nana" (for banana), "lamby" (for your stuffed lamb). You say "Poppy" (your grandpa on your dad's side) a lot. The standards still apply: mama, dada, uh oh, all done, and no.
The no has started being accompanied by what we are referring to as the "stink eye." It is this repulsed, thoroughly-unhappy look you have been working on where your eyebrows squish down and in, your eyes narrow and you seem to peer out the sides. That's the best way I can think to describe it. But the message is clear.
You met the Easter Bunny at my work! You seemed agreeable enough. You gave the Bunny five. You waved a lot. You offered the bunny an animal cracker completely unprovoked. But when I tried to sit you on its lap, you tried to pull your legs up to your chest. You were not having it. After some more waving and the exchange of pieces of trash, you were content to sit on its lap for a few pics. But it was just fun to see your response.
You and Daddy and Mommy have had some great outdoor excursions. In the woods by Mommy's work, you watched the dogs in the dog park delightedly and Dada taught you to throw rocks in the stream. You now LOVE doing this. We all went to Robin's park and you seemed to really like rides on Dada's shoulders. Oh, I nearly forgot something something else you say a lot. Recently you will come to our feet, grab a pant leg or two, and chirp "up" in an adorable little voice. It is precious. But you also seem to say "up" in situations like the one above, where you are on dada's shoulders, and we're pretty sure you mean down. Also, "all done" is always accompanied by more eating. It is confusing. Maybe I will ask you about this when you get a little bigger. If so, I'll record it here.
At your 18 month appointment today, the doctor said you are saying a lot more words then average. I didn't know what average is, but writing this post, I'm apt to believe it.
You also are pretty sure on your feet, and growing bigger every day. You are enjoying playing with the neighbor kids. It is fun to see you traipsing around with the "big kids" and a joy to see you all interact with each other. Twice a month we carpool with Mommy's friend Amy and her daughter Zoey (who's 2.5) to NMAC functions. And Zoey just loves you. It is so cute. The last time they dropped us off she asked for a kiss from you, which you gladly provided. I just really like seeing other people interact with you. And kids are so funny, so frank with each other.
As for big, the other day you went to the edge of the bed, laid on your tummy (Oh, I almost forgot about tummy! You also show people your tummy and love pointing out your belly button and mama's belly button.), and started lowering your feet off the bed like you normally do until they touch the floor. And then you stopped. I figured you had hit a box and were perched precariously on it. But then you amazed me. You turned and you walked away. You weren't standing on a box, you were able to see over the top of the bed now! You're getting taller; You're growing up.
All my love,
Mama
As soon as I wrote that last post about our wonderful night, you embarked on about 2 weeks of sleep troubles. Something comes to mind about counting chickens....
But we are on the other, sleeping, end of that disaster. And it has been sweet. There are several times recently where you rise from tossing and turning at night to point at your crib. And when I lay you down there, you snuggle in there and say "nigh night" in your sweet little voice. Though you often can't sleep well there either. But you try. (Probably teething.) And many nights recently, you've also snuggled in to your crib at the start of the night without tears, without anguish.... with peace. I am so glad. You still wake up in the middle of the night and I bring you in to bed though. I don't mind - it works for us.
You have been finding that sweet little voice more and more. You say all sorts of things. I remember cuddling you one of those restless nights where you worked out the way to say "one, two." Slowly, methodically, you sounded them out, "Won, Tu," to yourself. Turns out Dada taught you that that day. You actually seem to say this excitedly every time you see two of something. Can you really understand that there are 2 of something? Or am I just giving you too much credit? You love cats and will announce them, whether your stuffed ones or real ones. "Caz!" Often you just MEW instead. We've been playing with a little white kitten stuffed animal in the car recently. We meow really loud back and forth. And then one day you made the kitten dance to music in the car and I started saying "Go Kitty, Go Kitty, Go Kitty." And you think it is the best. I can't quite understand why, but it makes me feel like the funniest person on the planet. Do all moms feel that way? Especially when they are in the middle of major accomplishments like getting their little ones to laugh.
What could be sweeter?
You've also started making the shh finger and every time you do it, you say "B!" (Your nickname for your cousin Ben). So we say, "Ben is sleeping, shhhhh." Also, I cut my finger and you kept pointing at my "owie" and trying to kiss it. You also say "eis" for eggs, "wawa" for water (you've been up to this for a while), "blue," "Ello" (Othello is the name of one of the Morris' cats), "pee pee" and "poop poop" (we are preparing to potty train), "ball," "pants," "apple," "nana" (for banana), "lamby" (for your stuffed lamb). You say "Poppy" (your grandpa on your dad's side) a lot. The standards still apply: mama, dada, uh oh, all done, and no.
The no has started being accompanied by what we are referring to as the "stink eye." It is this repulsed, thoroughly-unhappy look you have been working on where your eyebrows squish down and in, your eyes narrow and you seem to peer out the sides. That's the best way I can think to describe it. But the message is clear.
You met the Easter Bunny at my work! You seemed agreeable enough. You gave the Bunny five. You waved a lot. You offered the bunny an animal cracker completely unprovoked. But when I tried to sit you on its lap, you tried to pull your legs up to your chest. You were not having it. After some more waving and the exchange of pieces of trash, you were content to sit on its lap for a few pics. But it was just fun to see your response.
You and Daddy and Mommy have had some great outdoor excursions. In the woods by Mommy's work, you watched the dogs in the dog park delightedly and Dada taught you to throw rocks in the stream. You now LOVE doing this. We all went to Robin's park and you seemed to really like rides on Dada's shoulders. Oh, I nearly forgot something something else you say a lot. Recently you will come to our feet, grab a pant leg or two, and chirp "up" in an adorable little voice. It is precious. But you also seem to say "up" in situations like the one above, where you are on dada's shoulders, and we're pretty sure you mean down. Also, "all done" is always accompanied by more eating. It is confusing. Maybe I will ask you about this when you get a little bigger. If so, I'll record it here.
At your 18 month appointment today, the doctor said you are saying a lot more words then average. I didn't know what average is, but writing this post, I'm apt to believe it.
You also are pretty sure on your feet, and growing bigger every day. You are enjoying playing with the neighbor kids. It is fun to see you traipsing around with the "big kids" and a joy to see you all interact with each other. Twice a month we carpool with Mommy's friend Amy and her daughter Zoey (who's 2.5) to NMAC functions. And Zoey just loves you. It is so cute. The last time they dropped us off she asked for a kiss from you, which you gladly provided. I just really like seeing other people interact with you. And kids are so funny, so frank with each other.
As for big, the other day you went to the edge of the bed, laid on your tummy (Oh, I almost forgot about tummy! You also show people your tummy and love pointing out your belly button and mama's belly button.), and started lowering your feet off the bed like you normally do until they touch the floor. And then you stopped. I figured you had hit a box and were perched precariously on it. But then you amazed me. You turned and you walked away. You weren't standing on a box, you were able to see over the top of the bed now! You're getting taller; You're growing up.
All my love,
Mama
Monday, February 20, 2012
17 months and A Great Day
Dearest Juliet,
I had the greatest night with you tonight. You are growing more and more in to your own person and it is fun to be able to share time with you.
I made up a new game in your carseat today where I made your legs do all sorts of things - clap together, go in circles, kick - along with some song I have instantly forgotten. And you seemed absolutely delighted. True, I could only think of a handful of things I repeated over and over (note to self: work on creativity) but you seemed so amused. When I got to the kicking part one time, you moved your leg away from my hands and showed me how you could kick to the song on your own. As if to say, "I get it, Mom." But in a sweet way.
When we got in the house, you raced right over to the sofa. You pointed up to it and looked at me. I usually ask you where you want to go to read a book or cuddle when I get home and you usually slowly walk over to the sofa/glider/rocking chair, but today you were proactive. Me and Mommy, here, pronto! We've started letting you watch little pieces of a movie called Ponyo, so you will often request that after a while in your adorable little voice by saying "Ponyo! Ponyo!" and pointing at the tv. (I am having second thoughts about letting you watch anything though.)
Speaking of which, your singing is absolutely precious. I'm trying to learn the words to Awake My Soul in one of our little booklets and now, each time you see the booklet, you pick it up and start singing with sweet sincerity. I've noticed that "dada" makes it in to a lot of the songs lately. But so passionate and loving those songs are. I know I won't be able to remember that - I don't have much of an ear for the way things sound. So I hope we record you soon.
After we got home, we went outside with Dada and Dog. More laughing as we run and you locate little things to show to Dada. You have decided that he absolutely loves rocks and any time you see one (and it is often), you pick it up, examine it, and whisper "dada" as if to yourself. You seem convinced that he will love this treasure as well.
You are also a fan of sticks. We got a great deal on LivingSocial for a year's membership to the Elmwood Park Zoo. So we took you this past weekend and it was interesting to notice the difference from the last time we went there, on your 1-year-old birthday. Now you're mobile, for one. And you want to spend a lot of time walking back and forth and picking up rocks. Sometimes you crouched down and seemed to peer in at some of the animals, but most of them were sleeping so I couldn't tell if you were genuinely looking at them or mimicking me! And eventually you found two sticks you hit together while you walked around and then put in holes in the perimeter's fence. They were a hit, though they seemed kind of dangerous. (Isn't everything?) At first I thought the highlight for you was going to be walking up and down a ramp, but once you saw the otters scampering around and swimming, we had met your joy. You laughed outright when you saw first saw them. And you continued to laugh joyfully at them. Every time they went in the water, though, you said "uh oh." Maybe you thought they weren't supposed to do that.
We also got a great deal on a membership to the Mercer Museum via LivingSocial. We took you there as well. You fell asleep in the car and slept in my arms for most of the trip. (It's not exactly kid-proofed there.) But you woke up in time to visit the kids' area, a really cute setup that included a hen sitting on a nest, which you picked up and carried around, and a little rocking chair on a kids' size porch next to a tiny butter churn. It was adorable to see you sitting there. I tried to snap a few pics, but you are fast. I am afraid we haven't been very good picture-takers since you've become so mobile. We're just trying to get you not to eat the dog food, I guess.
So those will be two of Daddy's options when he is looking for something to do with you this year. I am very proud of those finds. If we go twice, they have paid for themselves. And hopefully they will encourage more visits then that! Also, Daddy took you to his first playgroup at our friend Savanna's invitation. And it seems like great fun! I'm glad he found something like that to take you to because I really enjoy things like that but it can be hard for a stay-at-home Daddy to find a place to fit in sometimes. I am so tickled thinking of you two having a blast there. I heard that you love the parachute. And last time you and Daddy made a few hand-prints for me in paint and that makes me sooooo happy. You see, I'm sad we didn't get hand prints of you as a newborn. Dada says that it would have been really hard to get you to be still for that, but I still wish we had your hands somewhere to remember how tiny they were. For many months, we had little tiny hand prints on the bathroom mirror from Dada's demonstration of how hard it would be. I loved those prints. Luckily Dada washed the mirror, because I don't think I could have done it. But what remains in my mind is the joy at seeing them again and again. It is as if you have made your imprint on our life in the same way. Subtle yet constant, and overwhelmingly precious.
So tonight we ate our dinner and took our bath. Your hair had that adorable crazy look to it, all light curls and crazy wisps. Lovely. And we snuggled to sleep, singing and telling a story and saying a prayer, and you looked at me with this look like you might be the happiest little girl in the world. And it filled my heart with joy to see it. While we snuggled before bed, you kept hanging your head upside down, arching your back over my knees. You seemed so pleased and would pop back up to look at me and then, whoop, back down you would go. I would trace the lines of your little jaw, your rib cage stuck out, and your round little tummy. No longer a little baby, you are becoming our child, our little girl. I sang to you some more instead of tucking you right in to bed. (Bedtimes are MUCH better now! I lay you down sleepy and tuck the covers around you. Then we do a tradition you started unexpectedly. Once day when I laid you down and bundled you up, you raised one little arm, waving your hand and said "Night Night." It sounded more like Nigh Night actually. So I answered back. And now as I leave, we say softly to each other, Nigh Night, Nigh Night, Nigh Night. And once I am out of earshot, I sometimes hear you talking softly until you fall asleep. It is so peaceful - I never thought we would get there. By no means are bedtimes always smooth, but I thought we were going to have to choose between letting you cry in your crib or holding you all night. This is better for everyone. Though I do still like our snuggles. Hello tangent.) So the song I sang tonight is from a CD I remember listening to when my brother, your Uncle Zach, was a baby. Of course, you have the girl version and he the boy, but some of the songs overlap and this one I just love. So I will end with that, dear one. Daddy says that once you go to sleep, when we talk about you he can't wait to see you, like Christmas. He almost wants to go wake you up! And tonight I know exactly what he means. I know that right now you are in the room next door, sleeping peacefully, and my heart feels like it may explode. What a good day.
Your tummy is full.
We've taken a bath.
I tickle your toes -
we both have a laugh.
I turn out the light
'cause everything's right.
So let's say good night to the world.
Today is fading
but tomorrow is waiting.
Waiting for baby to wake up and play.
I had the greatest night with you tonight. You are growing more and more in to your own person and it is fun to be able to share time with you.
I made up a new game in your carseat today where I made your legs do all sorts of things - clap together, go in circles, kick - along with some song I have instantly forgotten. And you seemed absolutely delighted. True, I could only think of a handful of things I repeated over and over (note to self: work on creativity) but you seemed so amused. When I got to the kicking part one time, you moved your leg away from my hands and showed me how you could kick to the song on your own. As if to say, "I get it, Mom." But in a sweet way.
When we got in the house, you raced right over to the sofa. You pointed up to it and looked at me. I usually ask you where you want to go to read a book or cuddle when I get home and you usually slowly walk over to the sofa/glider/rocking chair, but today you were proactive. Me and Mommy, here, pronto! We've started letting you watch little pieces of a movie called Ponyo, so you will often request that after a while in your adorable little voice by saying "Ponyo! Ponyo!" and pointing at the tv. (I am having second thoughts about letting you watch anything though.)
Speaking of which, your singing is absolutely precious. I'm trying to learn the words to Awake My Soul in one of our little booklets and now, each time you see the booklet, you pick it up and start singing with sweet sincerity. I've noticed that "dada" makes it in to a lot of the songs lately. But so passionate and loving those songs are. I know I won't be able to remember that - I don't have much of an ear for the way things sound. So I hope we record you soon.
After we got home, we went outside with Dada and Dog. More laughing as we run and you locate little things to show to Dada. You have decided that he absolutely loves rocks and any time you see one (and it is often), you pick it up, examine it, and whisper "dada" as if to yourself. You seem convinced that he will love this treasure as well.
You are also a fan of sticks. We got a great deal on LivingSocial for a year's membership to the Elmwood Park Zoo. So we took you this past weekend and it was interesting to notice the difference from the last time we went there, on your 1-year-old birthday. Now you're mobile, for one. And you want to spend a lot of time walking back and forth and picking up rocks. Sometimes you crouched down and seemed to peer in at some of the animals, but most of them were sleeping so I couldn't tell if you were genuinely looking at them or mimicking me! And eventually you found two sticks you hit together while you walked around and then put in holes in the perimeter's fence. They were a hit, though they seemed kind of dangerous. (Isn't everything?) At first I thought the highlight for you was going to be walking up and down a ramp, but once you saw the otters scampering around and swimming, we had met your joy. You laughed outright when you saw first saw them. And you continued to laugh joyfully at them. Every time they went in the water, though, you said "uh oh." Maybe you thought they weren't supposed to do that.
We also got a great deal on a membership to the Mercer Museum via LivingSocial. We took you there as well. You fell asleep in the car and slept in my arms for most of the trip. (It's not exactly kid-proofed there.) But you woke up in time to visit the kids' area, a really cute setup that included a hen sitting on a nest, which you picked up and carried around, and a little rocking chair on a kids' size porch next to a tiny butter churn. It was adorable to see you sitting there. I tried to snap a few pics, but you are fast. I am afraid we haven't been very good picture-takers since you've become so mobile. We're just trying to get you not to eat the dog food, I guess.
So those will be two of Daddy's options when he is looking for something to do with you this year. I am very proud of those finds. If we go twice, they have paid for themselves. And hopefully they will encourage more visits then that! Also, Daddy took you to his first playgroup at our friend Savanna's invitation. And it seems like great fun! I'm glad he found something like that to take you to because I really enjoy things like that but it can be hard for a stay-at-home Daddy to find a place to fit in sometimes. I am so tickled thinking of you two having a blast there. I heard that you love the parachute. And last time you and Daddy made a few hand-prints for me in paint and that makes me sooooo happy. You see, I'm sad we didn't get hand prints of you as a newborn. Dada says that it would have been really hard to get you to be still for that, but I still wish we had your hands somewhere to remember how tiny they were. For many months, we had little tiny hand prints on the bathroom mirror from Dada's demonstration of how hard it would be. I loved those prints. Luckily Dada washed the mirror, because I don't think I could have done it. But what remains in my mind is the joy at seeing them again and again. It is as if you have made your imprint on our life in the same way. Subtle yet constant, and overwhelmingly precious.
So tonight we ate our dinner and took our bath. Your hair had that adorable crazy look to it, all light curls and crazy wisps. Lovely. And we snuggled to sleep, singing and telling a story and saying a prayer, and you looked at me with this look like you might be the happiest little girl in the world. And it filled my heart with joy to see it. While we snuggled before bed, you kept hanging your head upside down, arching your back over my knees. You seemed so pleased and would pop back up to look at me and then, whoop, back down you would go. I would trace the lines of your little jaw, your rib cage stuck out, and your round little tummy. No longer a little baby, you are becoming our child, our little girl. I sang to you some more instead of tucking you right in to bed. (Bedtimes are MUCH better now! I lay you down sleepy and tuck the covers around you. Then we do a tradition you started unexpectedly. Once day when I laid you down and bundled you up, you raised one little arm, waving your hand and said "Night Night." It sounded more like Nigh Night actually. So I answered back. And now as I leave, we say softly to each other, Nigh Night, Nigh Night, Nigh Night. And once I am out of earshot, I sometimes hear you talking softly until you fall asleep. It is so peaceful - I never thought we would get there. By no means are bedtimes always smooth, but I thought we were going to have to choose between letting you cry in your crib or holding you all night. This is better for everyone. Though I do still like our snuggles. Hello tangent.) So the song I sang tonight is from a CD I remember listening to when my brother, your Uncle Zach, was a baby. Of course, you have the girl version and he the boy, but some of the songs overlap and this one I just love. So I will end with that, dear one. Daddy says that once you go to sleep, when we talk about you he can't wait to see you, like Christmas. He almost wants to go wake you up! And tonight I know exactly what he means. I know that right now you are in the room next door, sleeping peacefully, and my heart feels like it may explode. What a good day.
Your tummy is full.
We've taken a bath.
I tickle your toes -
we both have a laugh.
I turn out the light
'cause everything's right.
So let's say good night to the world.
Today is fading
but tomorrow is waiting.
Waiting for baby to wake up and play.
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
15 months, a second Christmas, and other milestones
Hello Darling,
I read a blog post recently about how children thrive on quality time, how their little hearts overflow with joy and rightness when we play with them. (I'm paraphrasing here.) It reminded me of our play time. The adorable little jokes we share, the smiles and giggles and games. We play especially in the car when I sit next to you in your carseat. I've noticed I've set up a lot of silly cause and effect games and you seem to love them. You've also become really interactive. Today I put your sock over my nose, and you took your other sock and put it over your nose! How funny! You also have always liked holding your hands up while I bounce my hand back and forth between them. But today, for the first time, you took that beloved hand and gave it a huge hug. What a sweet gesture!
You walk all over, well, and fast. It is hard to remember a time when you didn't walk. I can hardly remember those newborn days now. You like to sit on things - pillows, boxes, anything really. You like to put toys in things and take them out. I've found all sort of things in the pots in the (forbidden) island cabinets. One of my favorite walking memories was when I got an idea that you would like a walking trip and we got some food from Wawa and went over to a park with a big grassy knoll. It was kind of chilly, but you loved standing by the side of the picnic table and having lunch and then you were delighted as we explored on your terms, letting you walk through fields and across baseball diamonds. You got awfully dirty, black lines under your nails and across your bottom (you were falling pretty frequently then - you hardly ever fall now!). But you were so delighted, your eyes sparkled. You picked up sticks and rocks and black walnut fruits. You ran around a fence. And then I picked you up and galloped around and you loved it so much you bobbed up and down when I would stop. There was so much laughter, Baby Girl. It was a very good day.
You added Mama to your vocabulary recently. In an overnight where you struggled with sleep, you just kind of said it. I was pretty blearly-eyed then but you've said it often enough since then for me to appreciate it. You've added other things since then and seem to copy words and phrases we say, as if trying them out. You say Amen at the end of prayers. And today after I nursed you, I asked if you wanted more (sign for more) milk (sign for milk) or if you were all done (sign for all done) and you said, "All Done." I was amazed. You do seem to like your signs. You are even interested in ones I haven't gone out of my way to teach you, like those in your Bedtime Signs book. You sign Moon and Stars and Light pretty unprovoked when we read it. Are these the things you like?
But it is clear you understand so much more then what you say. I am always kind of awed when you do what I say - when I tell you to put the block in the box and you do it, when I tell you we are going to go get some water and you walk with me, when I tell you the fire is hot and you waggle your finger at it and (usually) back away. How did this happen, darling one? How did you go from that new baby to someone learning language? I guess it shouldn't be a shock (we have all done it, right?) but it is so amazing to me. Without forcing, without hardly trying (though I did take the advice to heart to narrate everything I do in the early months and did it compulsively), you have learned language. It amazes me. I wait for your words, Dear. I wonder at the person you are showing us, word by word and gesture by gesture. My heart bursts to be a part of this adventure.
You had your second Christmas. You loved the tree and pointed at it over and over. We bought candy canes for you to hang on lower limbs which you really enjoyed. We bought an advent book and did 3ish out of 25 days. At that rate, in 8 years we will be doing all 25! Your Daddy is planning to make ornaments for our advent remembrances, one for each day/lesson. I didn't grow up with an Advent celebration and neither did your dad, but I wanted us to have a way to center and focus as a family. You sort of got the unwrapping of presents part. We would have to pull an edge of wrapping paper off and you would finish the motion, but you aren't yet in the frazzled wild animal stage of unwrapping that some kids get to. And you want to sit down and play with each and every present. We had to urge you on or take them away - otherwise each Christmas would have taken hours! My special present to you were two dolls I made out of yarn. You seemed to like them. I was far more pleased with the color and style of the girl doll (I almost didn't give you the boy and considered making him in to a girl), but you have a strong preference for the boy doll. (The differences are the colors and that his bottom half is braided in to legs instead of left loose in a dress.) Last I saw you play with the girl, you were shoving her in your play microwave. Oh well! I guess that shows me. I also went out last minute with your Grammy and got you a car. You seem to really love playing with cars. I want to try to be open to your preferences, instead of assuming things, like that you will like the girl doll better or that you will not like playing with cars. I am sort of looking forward to your clothing choices when you are old enough to dress yourself. =) One of your favorite toys was one your Aunt Beth spied at a thrift store and is the same toy that they have in the church nursery. I didn't get it at first and we went back the next day to pick it up. You accidentally saw it and pointed at it emphatically. Problem is, I sprayed it severely with disinfectant. All. Over. On every surface and in every pore. Not considering that it had holes for the speakers (it sings Sesame Street songs when you manipulate levers to make the doors/windows/trashcans pop open), I shorted something out and was devastated to find out that only half of the characters worked on Christmas Eve. And it leaked disinfectant spray. Ick! Christmas morning, one more character worked. And by Christmas Eve, by george, Oscar the Grouch was back with us as well. I guess it was sort of like Mommy's little Christmas miracle.
It's getting late, but I just wanted to quickly capture some memories. The time goes so very fast. It is dizzying in the grand scheme. And I pray that every day I cherish the small moments and, as the title of this blog suggests, capture them for the future.
I love you.
Mama
I read a blog post recently about how children thrive on quality time, how their little hearts overflow with joy and rightness when we play with them. (I'm paraphrasing here.) It reminded me of our play time. The adorable little jokes we share, the smiles and giggles and games. We play especially in the car when I sit next to you in your carseat. I've noticed I've set up a lot of silly cause and effect games and you seem to love them. You've also become really interactive. Today I put your sock over my nose, and you took your other sock and put it over your nose! How funny! You also have always liked holding your hands up while I bounce my hand back and forth between them. But today, for the first time, you took that beloved hand and gave it a huge hug. What a sweet gesture!
You walk all over, well, and fast. It is hard to remember a time when you didn't walk. I can hardly remember those newborn days now. You like to sit on things - pillows, boxes, anything really. You like to put toys in things and take them out. I've found all sort of things in the pots in the (forbidden) island cabinets. One of my favorite walking memories was when I got an idea that you would like a walking trip and we got some food from Wawa and went over to a park with a big grassy knoll. It was kind of chilly, but you loved standing by the side of the picnic table and having lunch and then you were delighted as we explored on your terms, letting you walk through fields and across baseball diamonds. You got awfully dirty, black lines under your nails and across your bottom (you were falling pretty frequently then - you hardly ever fall now!). But you were so delighted, your eyes sparkled. You picked up sticks and rocks and black walnut fruits. You ran around a fence. And then I picked you up and galloped around and you loved it so much you bobbed up and down when I would stop. There was so much laughter, Baby Girl. It was a very good day.
You added Mama to your vocabulary recently. In an overnight where you struggled with sleep, you just kind of said it. I was pretty blearly-eyed then but you've said it often enough since then for me to appreciate it. You've added other things since then and seem to copy words and phrases we say, as if trying them out. You say Amen at the end of prayers. And today after I nursed you, I asked if you wanted more (sign for more) milk (sign for milk) or if you were all done (sign for all done) and you said, "All Done." I was amazed. You do seem to like your signs. You are even interested in ones I haven't gone out of my way to teach you, like those in your Bedtime Signs book. You sign Moon and Stars and Light pretty unprovoked when we read it. Are these the things you like?
But it is clear you understand so much more then what you say. I am always kind of awed when you do what I say - when I tell you to put the block in the box and you do it, when I tell you we are going to go get some water and you walk with me, when I tell you the fire is hot and you waggle your finger at it and (usually) back away. How did this happen, darling one? How did you go from that new baby to someone learning language? I guess it shouldn't be a shock (we have all done it, right?) but it is so amazing to me. Without forcing, without hardly trying (though I did take the advice to heart to narrate everything I do in the early months and did it compulsively), you have learned language. It amazes me. I wait for your words, Dear. I wonder at the person you are showing us, word by word and gesture by gesture. My heart bursts to be a part of this adventure.
You had your second Christmas. You loved the tree and pointed at it over and over. We bought candy canes for you to hang on lower limbs which you really enjoyed. We bought an advent book and did 3ish out of 25 days. At that rate, in 8 years we will be doing all 25! Your Daddy is planning to make ornaments for our advent remembrances, one for each day/lesson. I didn't grow up with an Advent celebration and neither did your dad, but I wanted us to have a way to center and focus as a family. You sort of got the unwrapping of presents part. We would have to pull an edge of wrapping paper off and you would finish the motion, but you aren't yet in the frazzled wild animal stage of unwrapping that some kids get to. And you want to sit down and play with each and every present. We had to urge you on or take them away - otherwise each Christmas would have taken hours! My special present to you were two dolls I made out of yarn. You seemed to like them. I was far more pleased with the color and style of the girl doll (I almost didn't give you the boy and considered making him in to a girl), but you have a strong preference for the boy doll. (The differences are the colors and that his bottom half is braided in to legs instead of left loose in a dress.) Last I saw you play with the girl, you were shoving her in your play microwave. Oh well! I guess that shows me. I also went out last minute with your Grammy and got you a car. You seem to really love playing with cars. I want to try to be open to your preferences, instead of assuming things, like that you will like the girl doll better or that you will not like playing with cars. I am sort of looking forward to your clothing choices when you are old enough to dress yourself. =) One of your favorite toys was one your Aunt Beth spied at a thrift store and is the same toy that they have in the church nursery. I didn't get it at first and we went back the next day to pick it up. You accidentally saw it and pointed at it emphatically. Problem is, I sprayed it severely with disinfectant. All. Over. On every surface and in every pore. Not considering that it had holes for the speakers (it sings Sesame Street songs when you manipulate levers to make the doors/windows/trashcans pop open), I shorted something out and was devastated to find out that only half of the characters worked on Christmas Eve. And it leaked disinfectant spray. Ick! Christmas morning, one more character worked. And by Christmas Eve, by george, Oscar the Grouch was back with us as well. I guess it was sort of like Mommy's little Christmas miracle.
It's getting late, but I just wanted to quickly capture some memories. The time goes so very fast. It is dizzying in the grand scheme. And I pray that every day I cherish the small moments and, as the title of this blog suggests, capture them for the future.
I love you.
Mama
Friday, October 7, 2011
Is it One already? (Or the post that tries to recap an entire year of life and may be boring.)
Dearest KB,
You are a year. I can't believe it. It happened so fast. And yet, it seems like a long time has passed since you were a snugly newborn, a first-smiler, a new crawler, a talker. I can't imagine our life and family without you. I'm glad you're here.
So, for your first year, I'll mention some of my best memories of you. Sorry if they are repeats.
We kept your name a secret until you were born. When we got close to the time you were going to be born, and we had finally settled on what we thought would be your middle name, I was bursting at the seams to tell someone. I wanted to hear your name out loud, to hear other people say it. I would take walks at lunch and repeat your name when no one was around, over and over. But it didn't feel the same as telling anyone. In a fit of goofy whimsy, I walked by a bird's nest that must have fallen out of a tree. Looking around first, I bent down and told it your name. Several times. I felt like I was locking your secret away in the most perfect of places, a site of birth, and it made me so joyful to name you. I know that's kind of overly sentimental, but I had spent most of my pregnancy trying to be "normal," like a person who was exactly the same in all ways except for her shape. But at that moment, you felt real.
I also remember seeing your heartbeat on the ultrasound at my first doctor appointment. I hadn't expected to get an ultrasound then, but when they offered (probably to determine due date), I jumped at the chance, but I was scared. I had one baby in my tummy before you, and I found out that they didn't survive through an early ultrasound. So I was worried to go in and get the same news. Seeing the small, pulsing spot on the screen made me want to jump for joy. (Though I still feel kind of bad that Daddy couldn't be there.)
The look on your face when you were first born was amazing. You looked at me like you knew me forever and it seemed like you were trying to memorize all of my features. You were clearly so calmed by my voice, and so interested in me. You still show such sincere interest in me. When you and Daddy pick me up, you seem so pleased to see me. Your reactions have settled down a little bit, but for a while there you would kick and scream and smile like a lunatic when I first came out of work. What a great reception! And sometimes, you give me this look like we have the biggest, greatest secret in the world. It's usually when we are snuggling, and kind of gently playing around, and you look at me and grin that special, conspiratorial grin.
I am so proud of you when you share with me (mostly food, sometimes toys) especially since we never worked on that overtly and you just started doing it on your own. I'm proud when strangers comment about how good you are (you were wonderful on our recent flight to the Grand Canyon and on the train to visit Auntie Lauren in NY). I love when you go out of your way to wave at people - it makes them smile. And you are such a happy eater. You'll eat anything and everything. Your favorites seem to be watermelon (your Grandpa would be proud!), tomatoes and mushrooms although there hasn't been anything you wouldn't eat. I know that the so-called "terrible twos" can be rocky and I'm not sure all of these habits will stick, but overall you seem to me a generally mild-mannered baby, a little bit of a thrill-seeker, a sweetheart through and through.
Speaking of thrill-seeking, I wanted to tell you a little about your 1st birthday. I took off that day, a Wednesday, and gMom stopped by first thing in the morning to drop off a toy, a pretend cell phone. Our cell phones were some of the only "toys" that could console you during some of the epic parts of our Arizona trip. Even though it was rainy (I think it was rainy on your original birth day too!), we headed out to the Elmwood Park Zoo as planned. You seemed to like the vultures (they are always hanging out all over that zoo), the flamingos, the monkeys, and the buffalo tails. We went home for a nap and then went back out to look for things for your birthday party. (I only had about a week to plan/shop for it once I got my act together.) I thought you would like a carousel, so we went by the Willow Grove Mall and the woman at the desk gave us a free pass for you! We hadn't brought any cash and the ATM wanted something absurd as a surcharge. I think it was $3.50. So I asked her about paying for it with a card, and she gave us a pass. She made our day. (Woman at the Willow Grove Mall customer service stand, Thank You!) You seemed to like the stationary ones. The ones that went up and down made you a little nervous, but you didn't cry. Instead of crying, you just grabbed on to my shirt tightly and went with the flow. Not entirely the exhilaration I thought you would have, but you liked waving and pointing after we got off. We went to small group that night and we sang Happy Birthday to you there. We turned out the lights, which seemed to scare you a little, when we sang. And although you ate the cake, you didn't seem obsessed like I anticipated. We went home tired.
Friday we set up for your party at the Swanns' house. I choose an animal theme and improvised with your decorations and I think it looked very festive after all (meaning "despite all that stressing"). Grammy made food and bought some extra decorations. gMom came with the cakes. And BOTH grandmas got you balloons. It was great to see everyone on Saturday. Some of the Trainors were able to make it, and Emily's family was around from Alaska. You spent a lot of the party trying to go up the stairs (a new skill you perfected in the Grand Canyon with gMom and that you use to let yourself off of the bed on your own now!). In a rookie mom move, I gave you ice cream cake and you got brain freeze and yelled hysterically. The singing went much better with the lights on, although you seemed a little shocked that everyone was staring. Present time was fun - I opened most of them. =) But you and the other kids had fun playing with the toys. You got a lot of great ones!
Whew. I'm exhausted just recapping it. It was a great celebration though. I am most amazed that 1-yr-olds are still so small. I guess I thought that 1 meant you were all grown up, but you are still very much our little baby girl. Every day you learn more and more.
Oh, more memories: baby yoga and infant massage were both fun bonding experiences for me/us. You seemed to like doing "yummy toes," being helped to pull to sitting/standing (like baby crunches), and a baby massage technique that made your leg flop all over the place. You love when I sign to the alphabet song and it will calm you down even if I sing it from the front seat and you can't see my hands.
So, all these memories boil down to this: This year has been a great one. There are memories every day - secret smiles, things you point at, games we make up, meals and baths we share, that all add up to one great realization. I love you and I love being a mom. I thank God for giving you to our family.
Here's to a great first year and may there be many more.
I love you.
Mom
You are a year. I can't believe it. It happened so fast. And yet, it seems like a long time has passed since you were a snugly newborn, a first-smiler, a new crawler, a talker. I can't imagine our life and family without you. I'm glad you're here.
So, for your first year, I'll mention some of my best memories of you. Sorry if they are repeats.
We kept your name a secret until you were born. When we got close to the time you were going to be born, and we had finally settled on what we thought would be your middle name, I was bursting at the seams to tell someone. I wanted to hear your name out loud, to hear other people say it. I would take walks at lunch and repeat your name when no one was around, over and over. But it didn't feel the same as telling anyone. In a fit of goofy whimsy, I walked by a bird's nest that must have fallen out of a tree. Looking around first, I bent down and told it your name. Several times. I felt like I was locking your secret away in the most perfect of places, a site of birth, and it made me so joyful to name you. I know that's kind of overly sentimental, but I had spent most of my pregnancy trying to be "normal," like a person who was exactly the same in all ways except for her shape. But at that moment, you felt real.
I also remember seeing your heartbeat on the ultrasound at my first doctor appointment. I hadn't expected to get an ultrasound then, but when they offered (probably to determine due date), I jumped at the chance, but I was scared. I had one baby in my tummy before you, and I found out that they didn't survive through an early ultrasound. So I was worried to go in and get the same news. Seeing the small, pulsing spot on the screen made me want to jump for joy. (Though I still feel kind of bad that Daddy couldn't be there.)
The look on your face when you were first born was amazing. You looked at me like you knew me forever and it seemed like you were trying to memorize all of my features. You were clearly so calmed by my voice, and so interested in me. You still show such sincere interest in me. When you and Daddy pick me up, you seem so pleased to see me. Your reactions have settled down a little bit, but for a while there you would kick and scream and smile like a lunatic when I first came out of work. What a great reception! And sometimes, you give me this look like we have the biggest, greatest secret in the world. It's usually when we are snuggling, and kind of gently playing around, and you look at me and grin that special, conspiratorial grin.
I am so proud of you when you share with me (mostly food, sometimes toys) especially since we never worked on that overtly and you just started doing it on your own. I'm proud when strangers comment about how good you are (you were wonderful on our recent flight to the Grand Canyon and on the train to visit Auntie Lauren in NY). I love when you go out of your way to wave at people - it makes them smile. And you are such a happy eater. You'll eat anything and everything. Your favorites seem to be watermelon (your Grandpa would be proud!), tomatoes and mushrooms although there hasn't been anything you wouldn't eat. I know that the so-called "terrible twos" can be rocky and I'm not sure all of these habits will stick, but overall you seem to me a generally mild-mannered baby, a little bit of a thrill-seeker, a sweetheart through and through.
Speaking of thrill-seeking, I wanted to tell you a little about your 1st birthday. I took off that day, a Wednesday, and gMom stopped by first thing in the morning to drop off a toy, a pretend cell phone. Our cell phones were some of the only "toys" that could console you during some of the epic parts of our Arizona trip. Even though it was rainy (I think it was rainy on your original birth day too!), we headed out to the Elmwood Park Zoo as planned. You seemed to like the vultures (they are always hanging out all over that zoo), the flamingos, the monkeys, and the buffalo tails. We went home for a nap and then went back out to look for things for your birthday party. (I only had about a week to plan/shop for it once I got my act together.) I thought you would like a carousel, so we went by the Willow Grove Mall and the woman at the desk gave us a free pass for you! We hadn't brought any cash and the ATM wanted something absurd as a surcharge. I think it was $3.50. So I asked her about paying for it with a card, and she gave us a pass. She made our day. (Woman at the Willow Grove Mall customer service stand, Thank You!) You seemed to like the stationary ones. The ones that went up and down made you a little nervous, but you didn't cry. Instead of crying, you just grabbed on to my shirt tightly and went with the flow. Not entirely the exhilaration I thought you would have, but you liked waving and pointing after we got off. We went to small group that night and we sang Happy Birthday to you there. We turned out the lights, which seemed to scare you a little, when we sang. And although you ate the cake, you didn't seem obsessed like I anticipated. We went home tired.
Friday we set up for your party at the Swanns' house. I choose an animal theme and improvised with your decorations and I think it looked very festive after all (meaning "despite all that stressing"). Grammy made food and bought some extra decorations. gMom came with the cakes. And BOTH grandmas got you balloons. It was great to see everyone on Saturday. Some of the Trainors were able to make it, and Emily's family was around from Alaska. You spent a lot of the party trying to go up the stairs (a new skill you perfected in the Grand Canyon with gMom and that you use to let yourself off of the bed on your own now!). In a rookie mom move, I gave you ice cream cake and you got brain freeze and yelled hysterically. The singing went much better with the lights on, although you seemed a little shocked that everyone was staring. Present time was fun - I opened most of them. =) But you and the other kids had fun playing with the toys. You got a lot of great ones!
Whew. I'm exhausted just recapping it. It was a great celebration though. I am most amazed that 1-yr-olds are still so small. I guess I thought that 1 meant you were all grown up, but you are still very much our little baby girl. Every day you learn more and more.
Oh, more memories: baby yoga and infant massage were both fun bonding experiences for me/us. You seemed to like doing "yummy toes," being helped to pull to sitting/standing (like baby crunches), and a baby massage technique that made your leg flop all over the place. You love when I sign to the alphabet song and it will calm you down even if I sing it from the front seat and you can't see my hands.
So, all these memories boil down to this: This year has been a great one. There are memories every day - secret smiles, things you point at, games we make up, meals and baths we share, that all add up to one great realization. I love you and I love being a mom. I thank God for giving you to our family.
Here's to a great first year and may there be many more.
I love you.
Mom
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Dearest baby Juliet @ 11+ months; Here's pointing to you!
Dear J,
For the most part, you have been an absolute joy this past month. It is clear that you are really understanding things. I taught you how to turn the lights off in the bathroom (this may have been a bad move because you are enamored like someone who has never seen electricity - you point at the lights and the switch every time we go in there). I also taught you to open up your mouth so I can "brush" your two little teeth. You don't keep your mouth open for long, though, because you seem to like biting the wet washcloth I am using. I've got to watch my fingers!
At the beginning of August, I read a baby email that mentioned that the things that you had started pointing at showed the things that you are interested in. Sure, you were pointing, and we sort of knew that the things that you were pointing at were interesting to you, but only on a subconscious level. After I read that and started thinking about it, I used all that pointing as a way of learning about you. We could see what you found interesting or what you wanted. After I shared that with Daddy, he sent me a picture from his phone with the words "things baby points at." The picture was a fun one - row after row of brightly-painted piggy banks. I'd point too! Then I noticed other things you point at. You pretty much love animals and point at them all the time. Over the past few days, you've even started pointing at the fish! I'm not sure you realized he was there before. In the mornings, laying in bed, we used to point to the chimes above our bed over and over. You would point and look at me cheerfully and I would point too, saying "chimes." But maybe they lost their novelty because we haven't done it in a week or two.
We went with my parents to Dewey Beach, DE and it was such a great vacation. You seemed delighted by everything there and the routine seemed to really suit you (aka you went to bed easily). I put your little feet in the water, thinking it would be too cold, but you seemed pleased. When the waves came in, I would pick you up a little so you could kick your feet. As they went out, I put you down and you got this strange pleased look on your face. I think you liked the way the water receding felt on your little feet and how they start to sink in the soft sand at that point. You crawled all over. I was amused at seeing what a crawling baby's "footprints" look like. Hard to explain here. You were just the greatest, happiest little beach baby. I put you in my carrier for the morning and evening dog beach walks and it felt serene. Daddy found a large (conch?) shell on that trip and when we put it up to your ear so you can hear the ocean, you get that same small, peculiar look of amusement and delight that you gave when the waves sunk your feet in the sand. Such a wonderful, wonderful trip.
Oh, you headstand too! I don't know where it came from, but from time to time you will stop crawling, put your bottom in the air, and look at the world upside-down. I haven't been fast enough to get a picture, but it is just so funny.
September 8th you did something that melted my heart. I was spending the morning with you, sharing a handful of puffs. You were taking them out of my palm, one at a time, and eating them. And then you took one and held it out to my mouth! I couldn't believe it. I opened my mouth and in you put it, smiling the whole time. I couldn't believe it - where did you learn that? We didn't overtly teach you that, and yet, there it was. Another glimpse in to your mind.
Oh, a funny thing food-related happened at a cookout we went to at a friends' house at church. I was really proud of you because I cut the food up in to small pieces and then placed the plate on a large tray on the floor with all the other kids. Your first experience of the kids' table! You were adorably munching away until I looked away and turned back to see you grab the top bun of the girl's hamburger next to you. The entire thing you just plucked off of her burger. It was funny, but I felt kind of bad for her too. Guess that's the next lesson.
Oh, you've added a new word to your repertoire - "wow." It happened right after the shore trip mentioned above, so maybe we said it a lot there. But it is funny to hear you exclaim it over all sorts of things.
In the interest of full disclosure of the good and the bad, I am having a hard time getting you to cooperate with diaper changes and with getting in your car seat. You wiggle and squirm and try to turn around. If I get out an interesting toy, sometimes that keeps you put long enough to get the job done. But sometimes it is so frustrating. Daddy does not seem to have this problem.
A couple days ago I tried to introduce you to the idea of Elimination Communication. Even if we didn't follow it all the time, I thought that knowing that you were going to the bathroom might help you once potty training came around. One of my friends mentioned bringing you to the toilet first thing in the morning. One day I did and you went in the potty!!! I made a "ssss" sound and cheered for you. It went well. The next day, the same thing. Only this time you seemed to look to me to cheer. And cheer I did. But I got too overzealous and brought you to the potty numerous times that day, none of which you went to the bathroom during and the ones later in which you tensed up and kind of whined/cried. And the next morning you tensed and cried again. Either you didn't have to go, or I overdid it. And I feel kind of bad because it was going so well. So we'll wait a couple days and try again. I was just kind of hoping to avoid the potty battle in the future.
I feel like I have been so very busy. But I wanted to write this before our trip to the Grand Canyon with my family in a few days. I'm sure that will have some more stories. And then once we get back, we have a week before YOUR FIRST BIRTHDAY?! When did THAT happen? I certainly don't feel like you've been here a year and, yet, I can't remember life before you.
You are generally an easy-going and mild-mannered kid. Every now and then you have a bit of a temper or stubborn streak, but, knowing your parents, that's not surprising. I love you so much and I'm so very happy to have you here.
Kisses and Hugs around the neck (and the bushel and the peck, etc),
Mom
For the most part, you have been an absolute joy this past month. It is clear that you are really understanding things. I taught you how to turn the lights off in the bathroom (this may have been a bad move because you are enamored like someone who has never seen electricity - you point at the lights and the switch every time we go in there). I also taught you to open up your mouth so I can "brush" your two little teeth. You don't keep your mouth open for long, though, because you seem to like biting the wet washcloth I am using. I've got to watch my fingers!
At the beginning of August, I read a baby email that mentioned that the things that you had started pointing at showed the things that you are interested in. Sure, you were pointing, and we sort of knew that the things that you were pointing at were interesting to you, but only on a subconscious level. After I read that and started thinking about it, I used all that pointing as a way of learning about you. We could see what you found interesting or what you wanted. After I shared that with Daddy, he sent me a picture from his phone with the words "things baby points at." The picture was a fun one - row after row of brightly-painted piggy banks. I'd point too! Then I noticed other things you point at. You pretty much love animals and point at them all the time. Over the past few days, you've even started pointing at the fish! I'm not sure you realized he was there before. In the mornings, laying in bed, we used to point to the chimes above our bed over and over. You would point and look at me cheerfully and I would point too, saying "chimes." But maybe they lost their novelty because we haven't done it in a week or two.
We went with my parents to Dewey Beach, DE and it was such a great vacation. You seemed delighted by everything there and the routine seemed to really suit you (aka you went to bed easily). I put your little feet in the water, thinking it would be too cold, but you seemed pleased. When the waves came in, I would pick you up a little so you could kick your feet. As they went out, I put you down and you got this strange pleased look on your face. I think you liked the way the water receding felt on your little feet and how they start to sink in the soft sand at that point. You crawled all over. I was amused at seeing what a crawling baby's "footprints" look like. Hard to explain here. You were just the greatest, happiest little beach baby. I put you in my carrier for the morning and evening dog beach walks and it felt serene. Daddy found a large (conch?) shell on that trip and when we put it up to your ear so you can hear the ocean, you get that same small, peculiar look of amusement and delight that you gave when the waves sunk your feet in the sand. Such a wonderful, wonderful trip.
Oh, you headstand too! I don't know where it came from, but from time to time you will stop crawling, put your bottom in the air, and look at the world upside-down. I haven't been fast enough to get a picture, but it is just so funny.
September 8th you did something that melted my heart. I was spending the morning with you, sharing a handful of puffs. You were taking them out of my palm, one at a time, and eating them. And then you took one and held it out to my mouth! I couldn't believe it. I opened my mouth and in you put it, smiling the whole time. I couldn't believe it - where did you learn that? We didn't overtly teach you that, and yet, there it was. Another glimpse in to your mind.
Oh, a funny thing food-related happened at a cookout we went to at a friends' house at church. I was really proud of you because I cut the food up in to small pieces and then placed the plate on a large tray on the floor with all the other kids. Your first experience of the kids' table! You were adorably munching away until I looked away and turned back to see you grab the top bun of the girl's hamburger next to you. The entire thing you just plucked off of her burger. It was funny, but I felt kind of bad for her too. Guess that's the next lesson.
Oh, you've added a new word to your repertoire - "wow." It happened right after the shore trip mentioned above, so maybe we said it a lot there. But it is funny to hear you exclaim it over all sorts of things.
In the interest of full disclosure of the good and the bad, I am having a hard time getting you to cooperate with diaper changes and with getting in your car seat. You wiggle and squirm and try to turn around. If I get out an interesting toy, sometimes that keeps you put long enough to get the job done. But sometimes it is so frustrating. Daddy does not seem to have this problem.
A couple days ago I tried to introduce you to the idea of Elimination Communication. Even if we didn't follow it all the time, I thought that knowing that you were going to the bathroom might help you once potty training came around. One of my friends mentioned bringing you to the toilet first thing in the morning. One day I did and you went in the potty!!! I made a "ssss" sound and cheered for you. It went well. The next day, the same thing. Only this time you seemed to look to me to cheer. And cheer I did. But I got too overzealous and brought you to the potty numerous times that day, none of which you went to the bathroom during and the ones later in which you tensed up and kind of whined/cried. And the next morning you tensed and cried again. Either you didn't have to go, or I overdid it. And I feel kind of bad because it was going so well. So we'll wait a couple days and try again. I was just kind of hoping to avoid the potty battle in the future.
I feel like I have been so very busy. But I wanted to write this before our trip to the Grand Canyon with my family in a few days. I'm sure that will have some more stories. And then once we get back, we have a week before YOUR FIRST BIRTHDAY?! When did THAT happen? I certainly don't feel like you've been here a year and, yet, I can't remember life before you.
You are generally an easy-going and mild-mannered kid. Every now and then you have a bit of a temper or stubborn streak, but, knowing your parents, that's not surprising. I love you so much and I'm so very happy to have you here.
Kisses and Hugs around the neck (and the bushel and the peck, etc),
Mom
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Almost One? Actually 10 months. (aka How Time Flies)
Dearest Baby Juliet,
10 months seems awfully close to a year, doesn't it! A year? Have you really been with us almost that long? I can't believe it. On one hand, I can hardly remember our life before you got here. On the other hand, that newborn period seems so far away. It's hard to remember you then, small and helpless, staying exactly where you were placed, having trouble focusing your eyes, blinking blearily. My largest memory of that time is cuddling with you, the hours on the couch with you in my arms. Then I couldn't have imagined all that you are doing now!
You crawl! You pull to standing! You point! You play peek-a-boo!
You are amazing, a person developing before our eyes. If we developed as much as you do in a year, we'd be wonderpeople by now.
It's fun to see you encounter new things. You test them over and over. I went with you and Daddy to his cleaning job and you had your first encounter with stairs. You put one knee up and tried rocking back and forth, finding your balance. You didn't manage the other knee, but I could see you thinking, "how do I get over these?" You've found funny things to do at your grandparents' houses too. At my parents' house, you're showing nearly as much interest in tennis balls as Jake. (No, that's impossible.) And you impress gMom by picking them up with one hand! At Daddy's parents' house, you repeat a funny pattern: you go to the shelf under the television and try to pull out the big heavy books on the bottom shelf, then pull yourself to standing and point to the silver sparkly letters of the Band of Brothers DVD collection on the shelf above it. You will do this over and over again. It is fun to predict it (And next, she'll point at the letters....) and then watch you do it. I love that these things entertain you so much. It is fun to see your mind work via your actions and wonder how the world looks to you.
My favorite thing is seeing you when I get off from work. At the end of the day, once I've packed up all my things, I'm greeted with the most exuberant reaction. Sometimes Daddy takes you out of your seat and you both sit in the front seat to wait for me. When I come out, you often start bouncing vigorously. It's like your joy is going to blast out of you. I can usually see your mouth opening wide and closing. Your big smile. You shout, long and loud, as I walk closer. When I open the door, I can hear it, happily greeting me. I love it so much.
There is another thing you do that I think is precious. It's only every here and there and I don't know if I've mentioned it before. When I nurse you in cradle position, sometimes you will take your fist that is below my armpit and clench and unclench handfuls of shirt. I remember you starting that when you were very little, probably about 3 months, and how it just seemed like a sweet little hug. Every now and then, you still do it. It seems very distinctly you. But maybe all babies do it? I have no comparison. =)
We've spent a lot of time at the pool, and you're still enjoying it. You're no longer content to sit on a blanket like you were last month, but you're still a pretty content baby. We just have to watch you really closely because you want to eat everything.
Speaking of which, the other day at our apartment, I was playing with you on the bed and I noticed you munching. Then, slowly, you pushed something out of your mouth. At first it was just something white and you pulled it back in. Then, pushing it out, it proved to be letters - an "m," an "e." Out it came in one more thrust - the word "mean!" Somehow you must have picked up one of the fridge magnets and put it in your mouth. It was kind of hysterical if you don't think about choking hazards and supervision issues. Where did that come from?
You do not want to be held much anymore; You want to get down! You will push your body away with your arms or arch your back trying to get down. This seems to happen especially at church and at our grandparents' houses. Maybe there is too much to explore and too little time at those places.
Physically, you've started communicating more. You point at things that catch your attention. When you want to get picked up, you kind of hold your arms up. You're not exactly reaching out to be picked up, but more like raising your arms so I have better access to your torso. You pull cloths over your head and move them away slowly to play peek-a-boo. You wave your whole arms to say bye-bye. You tense up your body and shake when you want something we have (you love to eat, especially watermelon, and if you run out before we do, you let us know). Even though Daddy might disagree, it seems like you make the sign for milk a lot. You open and close your fist right up next to your nose. I imagine that when I make the sign while you're nursing, it looks like it's supposed to be there, right in front of your face. (You can do it down near your body too, but the way you do it now is pretty cute.) However, it seems like you make it when you want to be rescued from where you currently are, like in your carseat or when you are overly tired and I'm trying to change or dress you. I'm not sure it means "milk" as much as "come and get me - I don't want to be here." And that's fine too.
You are really coming in to your own this month. It is great to see you making such progress. I love being a parent. I still don't always feel like one, but it is great when I reflect on it. I can't imagine you walking and talking confidently. But I know it will come, as quickly as these changes have come. Farther and farther away from that cuddly little newborn and further and further in to the person you will be.
I love you.
Mom
10 months seems awfully close to a year, doesn't it! A year? Have you really been with us almost that long? I can't believe it. On one hand, I can hardly remember our life before you got here. On the other hand, that newborn period seems so far away. It's hard to remember you then, small and helpless, staying exactly where you were placed, having trouble focusing your eyes, blinking blearily. My largest memory of that time is cuddling with you, the hours on the couch with you in my arms. Then I couldn't have imagined all that you are doing now!
You crawl! You pull to standing! You point! You play peek-a-boo!
You are amazing, a person developing before our eyes. If we developed as much as you do in a year, we'd be wonderpeople by now.
It's fun to see you encounter new things. You test them over and over. I went with you and Daddy to his cleaning job and you had your first encounter with stairs. You put one knee up and tried rocking back and forth, finding your balance. You didn't manage the other knee, but I could see you thinking, "how do I get over these?" You've found funny things to do at your grandparents' houses too. At my parents' house, you're showing nearly as much interest in tennis balls as Jake. (No, that's impossible.) And you impress gMom by picking them up with one hand! At Daddy's parents' house, you repeat a funny pattern: you go to the shelf under the television and try to pull out the big heavy books on the bottom shelf, then pull yourself to standing and point to the silver sparkly letters of the Band of Brothers DVD collection on the shelf above it. You will do this over and over again. It is fun to predict it (And next, she'll point at the letters....) and then watch you do it. I love that these things entertain you so much. It is fun to see your mind work via your actions and wonder how the world looks to you.
My favorite thing is seeing you when I get off from work. At the end of the day, once I've packed up all my things, I'm greeted with the most exuberant reaction. Sometimes Daddy takes you out of your seat and you both sit in the front seat to wait for me. When I come out, you often start bouncing vigorously. It's like your joy is going to blast out of you. I can usually see your mouth opening wide and closing. Your big smile. You shout, long and loud, as I walk closer. When I open the door, I can hear it, happily greeting me. I love it so much.
There is another thing you do that I think is precious. It's only every here and there and I don't know if I've mentioned it before. When I nurse you in cradle position, sometimes you will take your fist that is below my armpit and clench and unclench handfuls of shirt. I remember you starting that when you were very little, probably about 3 months, and how it just seemed like a sweet little hug. Every now and then, you still do it. It seems very distinctly you. But maybe all babies do it? I have no comparison. =)
We've spent a lot of time at the pool, and you're still enjoying it. You're no longer content to sit on a blanket like you were last month, but you're still a pretty content baby. We just have to watch you really closely because you want to eat everything.
Speaking of which, the other day at our apartment, I was playing with you on the bed and I noticed you munching. Then, slowly, you pushed something out of your mouth. At first it was just something white and you pulled it back in. Then, pushing it out, it proved to be letters - an "m," an "e." Out it came in one more thrust - the word "mean!" Somehow you must have picked up one of the fridge magnets and put it in your mouth. It was kind of hysterical if you don't think about choking hazards and supervision issues. Where did that come from?
You do not want to be held much anymore; You want to get down! You will push your body away with your arms or arch your back trying to get down. This seems to happen especially at church and at our grandparents' houses. Maybe there is too much to explore and too little time at those places.
Physically, you've started communicating more. You point at things that catch your attention. When you want to get picked up, you kind of hold your arms up. You're not exactly reaching out to be picked up, but more like raising your arms so I have better access to your torso. You pull cloths over your head and move them away slowly to play peek-a-boo. You wave your whole arms to say bye-bye. You tense up your body and shake when you want something we have (you love to eat, especially watermelon, and if you run out before we do, you let us know). Even though Daddy might disagree, it seems like you make the sign for milk a lot. You open and close your fist right up next to your nose. I imagine that when I make the sign while you're nursing, it looks like it's supposed to be there, right in front of your face. (You can do it down near your body too, but the way you do it now is pretty cute.) However, it seems like you make it when you want to be rescued from where you currently are, like in your carseat or when you are overly tired and I'm trying to change or dress you. I'm not sure it means "milk" as much as "come and get me - I don't want to be here." And that's fine too.
You are really coming in to your own this month. It is great to see you making such progress. I love being a parent. I still don't always feel like one, but it is great when I reflect on it. I can't imagine you walking and talking confidently. But I know it will come, as quickly as these changes have come. Farther and farther away from that cuddly little newborn and further and further in to the person you will be.
I love you.
Mom
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